Jared Daley SOHH Chapter 12

Jared Daley SOHH Chapter 12
I never that I could grow accustomed to my struggles.  I never knew that it could be considered an addiction. It makes complete sense. It's a sense of security.  Sometimes moving past where we are is scary. We often get to the stage where it's "good enough" for others but we feel like we will never actually get any better. When we say " I can't " we believe it and teach ourselves that it's true. Sometimes we need breaks to fall in love all over again. Fling cautions to the winds. It may be safer to muddle around in familiar problems, but what do we get out of it? What does my problem buy for me?
Key concept- We can become addicted to struggling and never succeeding. To fail is safer than the extreme courage it takes to succeed.
Connection- I have built many walls telling myself that i'll never be such and such a singer. I've been stuck there a long time. I need to let it all go.